Where X is work, Y is pleasure and Z is keep your mouth shut!
No doubts, the figure of Albert Einstein has gone beyond the realm of science to become an icon of modern culture. And not only for its unique styling, or for winning a Nobel Prize, or even for being the father of the theory of relativity. Besides having revolutionized physics, Einstein was a staunch advocate of peace and a brilliant thinker on the art of living. His words of wisdom for everyday life proved that he kept his feet on the ground.
I love Einstein. I am currently reading a book about him called “Atomic Solutions for Relatively Serious Problems” by Allan Percy. The book collects great reflections of this genius and illustrates practical situations of everyday life. Einstein was, above all, a problem solver. Nowadays, where the pressure is high and the compensation low, his teachings could help us to put things into perspective. One example is about the importance of silence.
There are many trainings teaching us how to speak correctly and effectively, but it is difficult to find one on how to keep our mouths shut. Speaking only when necessary, measuring our words and, in many situations, being able to remain silent, is one of the formulas for success. The “economy of words” is a very valuable option for both private and professional relations. People with empathy know how to listen and observe people, and they speak only when necessary and worth it. We learn far more by actually listening than by talking. In fact, many problems remain unsolved because our ego pushes us to be right and to speak up, and we seldom take the point of view of the other person into account.
If you are not sure about something, «say what you have to say, tomorrow» (Japanese proverb).